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Lisa S. Gerard
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The Virago

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Cheater? He Pointed His Angry Finger in My Face For an Affair I Never Had

Guilty of unrequited love — This life chapter begs to be closed. Let this message serve as my final word on the subject — never to be spoken of again. The dead horse shall suffer no more beatings. Absurdities and lunacy no longer live rent-free in my brain. I did not cheat on my husband. …

Relationships

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Cheater? He Pointed His Angry Finger in My Face For an Affair I Never Had
Cheater? He Pointed His Angry Finger in My Face For an Affair I Never Had
Relationships

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The Pro Files

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Life is Hard, Life is Unfair — We Control Whether or Not That Defines Us

Writer Q&A with Lisa S. Gerard — BUMFUCK, NW, March 18, 2023 /Ben Human/ Hey Lisa, can I interview you for my pub? We profile writers on the topic of writing and life as a writer. UPTOWN, GL, March 18, 2023 /Lisa S. …

Writer Profiles Q And A

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Life is Hard, Life is Unfair — We Control Whether or Not That Defines Us
Life is Hard, Life is Unfair — We Control Whether or Not That Defines Us
Writer Profiles Q And A

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I Opened My Mouth, Betrayed My Brain, and Ruined 25 Years of Marriage

I wouldn’t change anything except for me, so I did — Everything was fine in my marriage until the last 8 hobbling years. Unfortunately, divorce proceedings started in the 25th year of our union. Once finalized, I told people how I was happily married for 15 years, yet married for a decade more than that. And though I found my response…

Feminism

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I Opened My Mouth, Betrayed My Brain, and Ruined 25 Years of Marriage
I Opened My Mouth, Betrayed My Brain, and Ruined 25 Years of Marriage
Feminism

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Age of Empathy

·May 12

The Unsung Heroines: A Buy-One-Get-One-Free Baby Kneels in Gratitude

Every day is Mother’s Day — Whether your children are yours through biology or adoption, they are yours through love” — Sadia Rebecca Rodriguez On Mother’s Day, laud all moms and pay particular note to the women who willfully accept a non-biological child as their own — truly the unsung heroes of motherhood. In my mind, …

Mothers Day

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The Unsung Heroines: A Buy-One-Get-One-Free Baby Kneels in Gratitude
The Unsung Heroines: A Buy-One-Get-One-Free Baby Kneels in Gratitude
Mothers Day

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The Memoirist

·May 7

Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep, Agitated by the Noisy Sheep

I will not go crazy, I will not go crazy, I will not go crazy. — In one minute, a mere sixty seconds, I must accomplish the unthinkable, or mayhem will disrupt the coveted calmness of the evening. I tip-toed toward my target. A few Hail Marys from this non-Catholic may do the trick. …

Mental Health

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Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep, Agitated by the Noisy Sheep
Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep, Agitated by the Noisy Sheep
Mental Health

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Engage

·May 2

This Shocking and Eye-Opening Dating Trend Brings New Heartache

Being Zombied is worse than Ghosting — Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option. — Mark Twain Ghosting is my special kind of hell. At 54 years old, I was thrust back into the dating world that had morphed into an unrecognizable obstacle course of head games. The wonders of…

Dating

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This Shocking and Eye-Opening Dating Trend Brings New Heartache
This Shocking and Eye-Opening Dating Trend Brings New Heartache
Dating

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Age of Empathy

·Apr 13

When a Father Refused to Wish His Daughter a Happy Birthday

All because she didn’t live up to his expectations — When is it okay for a father to blatantly ignore his daughter’s birthday? I think, never. It’s never okay. It’s demeaning, demoralizing, and shameful to treat your own child as if they don't exist. What if the grown child has a mental illness? A Few Weeks Ago It’s every landlord’s nightmare to walk into…

Mental Health

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When a Father Refused to Wish His Daughter a Happy Birthday
When a Father Refused to Wish His Daughter a Happy Birthday
Mental Health

5 min read


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The Shortform

·Mar 29

My Ex Had His Eye On Ruining My Credit — The Cold Black Heart Of Divorce

Trust is still tricky after 25 years — The neglected pile of ominous mail built on my counter. Divorce knocked the stuffing out of me regardless of whether I had chosen it. Brain fog prevailed. I robotically tended to Ian, my grandson, versus addressing any personal desires or needs. Paperwork was not a priority. Relearning to breathe mattered…

Divorce

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My Ex Had His Eye on Ruining My Credit — The Cold Black Heart of Divorce
My Ex Had His Eye on Ruining My Credit — The Cold Black Heart of Divorce
Divorce

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Engage

·Mar 15

The 2 Eye-Opening TikToks You Must See to Believe: Rewire Your Brain Now

Thank me or block me, your choice. — Why the featured Jeep? It personifies my personality. I loved my Jeep. Mean and muscled steel, lifted, and a daunting presence on the road. The addition of unexpected eyelashes is how I roll, literally and figuratively. People greeted me — some with disdain. …

Tik Tok

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The 2 Eye-Opening TikToks You Must See to Believe: Rewire Your Brain Now
The 2 Eye-Opening TikToks You Must See to Believe: Rewire Your Brain Now
Tik Tok

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Published in

Engage

·Mar 8

Mastodon: What If You Cut Off Your Nose to Spite Your Face?

I’ve made my decision, how about you? — People — writers, came out of the woodwork to discount Mastodon before the Medium door to me.dm opened. Their reasons varied slightly but all came down to negative opinions regarding what the site won’t offer. Opinions. Not trusting; not verifying. The nay-sayers omitted what the site can provide. I consciously…

Mastodon

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Mastodon: What If You Cut Off Your Nose to Spite Your Face?
Mastodon: What If You Cut Off Your Nose to Spite Your Face?
Mastodon

4 min read

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Lisa S. Gerard

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