Published in The Pro Files·PinnedMember-onlyLife is Hard, Life is Unfair — We Control Whether or Not That Defines UsWriter Q&A with Lisa S. Gerard — BUMFUCK, NW, March 18, 2023 /Ben Human/ Hey Lisa, can I interview you for my pub? We profile writers on the topic of writing and life as a writer. UPTOWN, GL, March 18, 2023 /Lisa S. …Writer Profiles Q And A11 min readWriter Profiles Q And A11 min read
Published in Engage·PinnedMember-onlyThe 2 Eye-Opening TikToks You Must See to Believe: Rewire Your Brain NowThank me or block me, your choice. — Why the featured Jeep? It personifies my personality. I loved my Jeep. Mean and muscled steel, lifted, and a daunting presence on the road. The addition of unexpected eyelashes is how I roll, literally and figuratively. People greeted me — some with disdain. …Tik Tok4 min readTik Tok4 min read
PinnedMember-onlyI Opened My Mouth, Betrayed My Brain, and Ruined 25 Years of MarriageI wouldn’t change anything except for me, so I did — Everything was fine in my marriage until the last 8 hobbling years. Unfortunately, divorce proceedings started in the 25th year of our union. Once finalized, I told people how I was happily married for 15 years, yet married for a decade more than that. And though I found my response…Feminism5 min readFeminism5 min read
Published in Engage·Mar 8Member-onlyMastodon: What If You Cut Off Your Nose to Spite Your Face?I’ve made my decision, how about you? — People — writers, came out of the woodwork to discount Mastodon before the Medium door to me.dm opened. Their reasons varied slightly but all came down to negative opinions regarding what the site won’t offer. Opinions. Not trusting; not verifying. The nay-sayers omitted what the site can provide. I consciously…Mastodon4 min readMastodon4 min read
Published in Engage·Feb 26Member-onlyFate Healed Her Broken Heart — Love Hides Right in Front of Your EyesCan AI convey these emotions and destiny? — We all have them. Moments when your lungs squeeze tight, your head spins, and your feet seek level ground as you reel from a shocking event. Tragedies. A broken heart. Devastation overtakes our brains, and that sinking feeling of despair suffocates us. …Inspiration3 min readInspiration3 min read
Published in Age of Empathy·Feb 18Member-onlyThe Head-Scratching When You Realize You Broke Up Before the First DateA big reaction to a small bump in the road — I used to view Murphy’s Law as negative. Used to. Until now. The idea that if anything can go wrong it will certainly doesn’t lend itself toward being pleasant. So, we lament over bad luck. We blame Murphy’s Law. For years. But what if the adage is misunderstood? Is it…Dating5 min readDating5 min read
Published in The Memoirist·Feb 8Member-onlyThe Most Unusual Valentine’s Gift: Broken Heart, Handcuffs, Laser EyesI will give him the best gift ever. — Handcuffs and Teddy Bears My heart raced. The familiar drill of family court was scheduled for Valentine’s Day 2018. Expect the unexpected hurdles, and stealth verbal snipers filled with hate, to appear. Each month required our attendance at sessions before the judge, advocates, case workers, and my grandson’s guardian ad litem. The same formal…Valentines Day5 min readValentines Day5 min read
Published in Age of Empathy·Jan 26Member-onlyMy Eyes Tell the Story: Lymphoma Blurs the Now and LaterSlammed by cancer and the ripple effect on the family — The eyes in the mirror aren’t mine — they can’t be. They seem similar but tired and older. In a mere seven weeks, everything we knew shifted to prove we know nothing at all. Lymphoma revealed itself in early December, declaring that it would now control more than just one…Mental Health5 min readMental Health5 min read
Jan 5Member-onlyCancer: Your Ears Hear the Word and The Once Pretty Tree Turns Ugly Before Your EyesShocked by the worst ending to 2022. — It’s all my mom wanted. It continues to be all she desires. To sit in her recliner and marvel at the beauty of her Christmas tree filled with little white lights, shiny garland, and goofy ornaments from her kids, grands, and greats, crafted for decades. Early December family traditions included…Cancer5 min readCancer5 min read
Published in The Memoirist·Dec 16, 2022Member-onlyThe 2022 Year-End Jolt to My Heart: Open Your Eyes and Ears for MiraclesToday, my hobbling faith in our future was restored instantly. — Today came to end like any other. Or, so I thought. I crawled in on all fours. The idea to stay low, and put my finger to my lips to prevent the school kids from yelling my name and blowing my cover, only yields moderate success. It’s my schtick, though. …20225 min read20225 min read