THE AUTHENTIC ECLECTIC

Am I Jewish or Not? My Mouth and Brain Fire Up as I Wear My Heart On My Sleeve

It’s complicated or maybe not so much

Lisa S. Gerard
5 min readMay 30, 2022

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portrait of two women friends laughing and smiling with sunglasses on
Image by Luis Wilker WilkerNet from Pixabay

“Oh, my God! Are you Jewish? I just knew you were!”

This is a slow-motion and much-repeated loop in my life.

We stood poolside and exchanged phone numbers for the future. The three of us women were strangers an hour prior but quickly bonded with common life experience disclosures. We covered a lot of ground in a short time.

Click, click, click…as I typed BRAUN into her contacts, her exuberance ignited.

The sun rays caught her Star of David necklace, and sparkly reflections danced across the pool water. Her bright smile was a contender, though, for the brilliant shine of jewelry I hadn’t noticed until then.

She instantly exuded excitement from every pore. I liked her and wondered if my answer would disappoint her.

“Oh, my God! You are Jewish, aren’t you?”

Oh, this is so complicated.

How deep do I go in on this first meeting?

I can’t lie about it, and the truth is a tad bizarre when I am cornered to reply. It’s a clearcut answer for most people. How hard can it be…

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Lisa S. Gerard

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